Thursday, November 22, 2012

Thankful Heart



Thanksgiving 2012

 

 

 
Today is a little bitter sweet for us. Kaleb and Lucy are with their dad, and Jason is at work for a 48 hour shift.We had our Turkey Day on Sunday, so we've been enjoying leftovers for days now. So today, it's just Malia & me at home. Just the two of us, the animals, and a warm fire, and banana bread in the oven. It is Malia's first Thanksgiving, and her first day of being 5 months old. So while there are no plans for a big family get together today (kind of depressing), I am spending my day with someone I am exremeley thankful for. Its nice to have the house to ourselves. We have spent lots of time cuddling, playing toys, nursing and snoozes for baby.
 
We have all been hearing a lot about what people are thankful for. I am a big fan of social media (although it has some downsides), and via Facebook I have been reading a lot of posts about what people are thankful for. Some people do the one thing a day posts for the month, but that's not for me. I usually have enough time to pop onto Facebook and read some newsfeed and group stuff and like & occasionally comment, but I don't like to over post or photobomb my 350+ friends' newsfeed. Plus, I think it's really easy to over share, so I try to draw my own line somewhere. Anyway, I did think it would be good to create a random short list (in no particular order) of things I am thankful for, and particularly things I'm thankful for this year.
 
 
  1.  I am thankful to be in a happy marraige with a man who is a good father and caring husband.
  2.  To have three wonderful, healthy, thriving children that share unconditional love with me
  3.  Thankful that we were blessed with the miracle of a baby girl on the first day of summer
  4.  thankful for the house that we live in with all its luxuries and flaws included
  5.  thankful that my husband has a job and works hard to support our family so that I can stay home with Malia and take care of her myself
  6.  for technology
  7.  for Pinterest :)
  8.  for the Warren Avenue Knights championship football game to end a great season
  9.  that Lucy played for an outstanding soccer coach and team who also had a championship season
  10.  that the family we have created allows Kaleb and Lucy to have 3 parents that love them and work together to raise them the best way we know how, and to give them a good start and foundation to their lives because we all get along and support each others decisions!
  11.  thankful for my 11 year old son that is a baby-loving big brother. - the relationship between Malia and her big brother is so touching!
  12. thankful that my family loves my cooking and that there is always food on the table
  13. thankful that Malia and I stuck with breastfeeding even though it was a (very) rough start
  14. so, so thankful for my life changing homebirth
  15. thankful for my midwife, Mif
  16. thankful for our animals who bring so much joy & enertainment to our family - even though they do drive me nuts sometimes! :)
  17. thankful that Jason's co-worker traded us the new van for his crappy truck. talk about a God send!
  18. thankful it's basketball season for the kids - horray for indoor sports!
  19. thankful for my smartphone. How did we ever live without them?
  20. thankful for Instagram and all the sweet photos I have because of it
  21. so thankful for my sweet Lucy who is becoming a lady - beautiful, fashionable, creative, nurturing, gentle, opinionated, intuative, empathetic
  22. thankful that Jason takes the baby in the mornings so I can get some peaceful sleep
  23. thankful that my husband does all the man chores that are essential for life: chopping wood, doing dog poop, taking out the garbage, cleaning the fish tank, yard work, gutters & all the other things on the honey-do list - he even helps with laundry!!
  24. thankful for music because I love to sing along & dance when no one is watching
  25. thankful for SOA & Jax :)
  26. thankful for all my pictures I have taken or kept throughout the years to have preserved all the memories
  27. thankful for my few close friends
  28. thankful for long lasting friends, who, though we may not see each other or talk often, we always pick up right where we left off
  29. thankful for cloth diapers! they are so awesome, efficient, cute AND saved us tons of $$!
  30. thankful I have a spouse who honeslty cares about my dreams & intends to support me in acheiving them
  31. thankful for having a great set of in-laws that we actually enjoy being around and love! Kaleb, Lucy & I are lucky they accepted us into their family and we are one for all
  32. Thankful that my heart is not filled with saddness & stress, only love